Sculpture, Designs, Finish and Epitaphs

Individuality and excellence of design of memorials is encouraged. Headstones need not be restricted to a rectangular shape.

Sculpture

Sculpture or statuary are not discouraged but must be authorised by faculty.

Designs

Individuality and excellence of design of memorials is encouraged.  Headstones need not be restricted to a rectangular shape.  For example, curved tops are preferable to straight-edged ones.  However, memorials in the shape of a heart are not permitted other than by faculty.  A design carved into the face of the stone or hardwood is permissible, provided that it is of high quality, relevant and reverent. 
Photographs or porcelain or other portraits or pictures are not permitted.  Kerbs, railings, chains, chippings or glass shades are not permitted unless allowed by regulations issued by the incumbent and PCC.  A cross should be individually designed if a permanent memorial in this form is desired.  A book or Bible design is acceptable but should be mounted upon a tick-rest or a second base, and the overall height may be of less than 750mm (2'6").  Applicants who want an individually designed headstone may wish to read the booklet ‘Memorials by Artists,' which can be consulted at Diocesan House.

Finish

A smooth finish is preferred, which shall not be more polished than a non-reflective or honed finish.  A rough finish is acceptable.  Where desired, the inscribed face but no other part of the stone may be polished to a reflective finish.
Epitaphs
Inscriptions must be reverent and may include literary quotations.  Inscriptions must be incised in the surface or carved in relief, and may be painted in black, white or goldleaf.  Lead lettering may be used.  Plastic or other inlaid lettering is not permitted.

Additions may be made to an inscription at a later date following a subsequent interment in the same grave or for another suitable reason.  However, any such addition must be separately approved by the incumbent, and the lettering, layout and wording must be consistent with the original inscription.

References to the bereaved family in the inscription should be restricted to parent/child or spouse relationships.  The inclusion of siblings' or other relatives' names in addition to those of parents/children of the deceased is not normally permitted.  Brothers or sisters may be referred to as the only bereaved, or of course where they are interred in the same grave.

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